Hey readers!! Hope everything's going well...and if it isn't I do hope y'all find a ray of hope or solution.
So I have some sad stuff or rather serious stuff to talk about. Do you guys ever feel that you have known or indirectly heard of some person who is exactly one of the mean girls or guys you see on T.V. or movies..and you think that why on God's green earth does such shit exist!!?? Like I personally can't stand such people, who are mean and shallow on another level. I'm talking about a person that I know since years...like he isn't my friend but he was in the same grade as me and I knew him a little cause he had stories of dating...breaking up...being the Indian playboy..LOL, if that makes sense!
He was very sweet before to everyone but due to all the fucking attention that he got, he got cocky and arrogant. Isn't the story too cliche, like he was the sports captain for our school, he had the looks the 'looks', don't they always make a difference.
So he was a my friend's friend since childhood. This friend of mine, is the one that I go on walks almost every day and talk about anything I want to, cause I know she would never in a million years judge me. She is so true to what she says plus she is rooted and ambitious. Eight years down the line, she was a new student and had come from China. This guy was by chance her friend and it stuck. This girl was different, she was quiet, reserved and did not mix promptly into the groups...did I ever mention that I hate something called "groupism"..so she found him as a friend and as you guys might have guessed..with all the attention and puberty..his priorities and attitude changed and he turned into a royal jackass.
Enough with history now lets talk about the present. So this friend of mine and mr. douchebag are in college and I'm in school cause in my state one can opt to continue school and then take admission into a university (complicated state education jargon). So she is in one college and he is another and they go to the same english class. So my friend texted me saying she is very sad because of something he told her..I think it started out pretty normally but then they went personal and my friend told him to stay in his limits and that everyone around there knows about his messed up relationships, which is one hundred percent true. He then told her that she should keep her mouth shut cause he knows how desperate she was to be with him and "fit in"..thus this guy brings out an 8 year old topic and hurts my friends feelings. She felt so bad, she just walked away cause she didn't wanna say anything and I'm sure that this incident wouldn't have weighed an ounce on his conscience.
My friend tells me that she reminisces about the happy funny times they had spent as kids..but those were the days of innocence. When I heard of this incident I wanted to kill him, give him the worst throat punch ever but in the end I told her to forget about it, as two years down the line it wouldn't even matter to her where he is who is he with and if he is dead or alive. excuse me if I sound cold but truth be told right..sometimes you just gotta give a flying fuck to people and tell them to measure their own balls. I might sound rude but I'm being very honest with you guys, I was in great rage after hearing this incident and no one like of their friend gets hurt right?
One secret! My friend had a crush on this guy like many other girls did but she never told him about it, cause of her weight and all other issues. Its just sad that people like that don't get that much respect though they are so much more amiable and admiring. Do looks and the skin on you command respect..have the days changed so much!!?? I LOVE MY FRIEND FOR WHO SHE IS
Anyway, to those, who face they need a voice, or feel that they are fat, ugly or not too good to fit in. Let me tell you guys something, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you might want to kick someone's ass and run away from that person who derides you for what you appear to be! There is nothing called fat and ugly...and you have to be the one to tell the people that around you..im sorry but you have to gather self respect to earn respect and you got to stand up for yourself. I know its very hard and its shit scary, I have had friends who have stood up for me and were called my bodyguards, they did it cause they loved me but face it after a time it makes you feel vulnerable and that frustration will burst and it will take only a spark for that fight and defence to take place! If someone calls you fat...tell them that they should better mind their own business as you aren't eating from their father's money! Never be scared of complaining to the teacher or a mentor, you might be risking being called a "complaint box" but you comfort and piece of mind are much important. Also its fine if you don't talk about all this to your parents, but please do cause they can do everything in their power to stop it and asking for help isn't a sign of weakness! But i personally find it much more comfortable to talk to friends about this so do whatever works for you but please do cause letting it be will only make it worse.
I have been in those situations where I had no one to talk to cause I wasn't cool or sporty enough but I found my people and those I could relate too. Friends have to be those who respect you the most.
Hope you guys recognise your friends and at this age it's my request to all teenagers who are eager to fit in...its only a matter of time before you'd have to leave the mould and find your own lining.
Please share your personal struggles if you desire to and help me get inspired..If you have said something mean to your friends and it is now that you realise it...its never too late to apologise and its a sign that you are a person who has courage and a pure heart!
So I have some sad stuff or rather serious stuff to talk about. Do you guys ever feel that you have known or indirectly heard of some person who is exactly one of the mean girls or guys you see on T.V. or movies..and you think that why on God's green earth does such shit exist!!?? Like I personally can't stand such people, who are mean and shallow on another level. I'm talking about a person that I know since years...like he isn't my friend but he was in the same grade as me and I knew him a little cause he had stories of dating...breaking up...being the Indian playboy..LOL, if that makes sense!
He was very sweet before to everyone but due to all the fucking attention that he got, he got cocky and arrogant. Isn't the story too cliche, like he was the sports captain for our school, he had the looks the 'looks', don't they always make a difference.
So he was a my friend's friend since childhood. This friend of mine, is the one that I go on walks almost every day and talk about anything I want to, cause I know she would never in a million years judge me. She is so true to what she says plus she is rooted and ambitious. Eight years down the line, she was a new student and had come from China. This guy was by chance her friend and it stuck. This girl was different, she was quiet, reserved and did not mix promptly into the groups...did I ever mention that I hate something called "groupism"..so she found him as a friend and as you guys might have guessed..with all the attention and puberty..his priorities and attitude changed and he turned into a royal jackass.
Enough with history now lets talk about the present. So this friend of mine and mr. douchebag are in college and I'm in school cause in my state one can opt to continue school and then take admission into a university (complicated state education jargon). So she is in one college and he is another and they go to the same english class. So my friend texted me saying she is very sad because of something he told her..I think it started out pretty normally but then they went personal and my friend told him to stay in his limits and that everyone around there knows about his messed up relationships, which is one hundred percent true. He then told her that she should keep her mouth shut cause he knows how desperate she was to be with him and "fit in"..thus this guy brings out an 8 year old topic and hurts my friends feelings. She felt so bad, she just walked away cause she didn't wanna say anything and I'm sure that this incident wouldn't have weighed an ounce on his conscience.
My friend tells me that she reminisces about the happy funny times they had spent as kids..but those were the days of innocence. When I heard of this incident I wanted to kill him, give him the worst throat punch ever but in the end I told her to forget about it, as two years down the line it wouldn't even matter to her where he is who is he with and if he is dead or alive. excuse me if I sound cold but truth be told right..sometimes you just gotta give a flying fuck to people and tell them to measure their own balls. I might sound rude but I'm being very honest with you guys, I was in great rage after hearing this incident and no one like of their friend gets hurt right?
One secret! My friend had a crush on this guy like many other girls did but she never told him about it, cause of her weight and all other issues. Its just sad that people like that don't get that much respect though they are so much more amiable and admiring. Do looks and the skin on you command respect..have the days changed so much!!?? I LOVE MY FRIEND FOR WHO SHE IS
Anyway, to those, who face they need a voice, or feel that they are fat, ugly or not too good to fit in. Let me tell you guys something, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you might want to kick someone's ass and run away from that person who derides you for what you appear to be! There is nothing called fat and ugly...and you have to be the one to tell the people that around you..im sorry but you have to gather self respect to earn respect and you got to stand up for yourself. I know its very hard and its shit scary, I have had friends who have stood up for me and were called my bodyguards, they did it cause they loved me but face it after a time it makes you feel vulnerable and that frustration will burst and it will take only a spark for that fight and defence to take place! If someone calls you fat...tell them that they should better mind their own business as you aren't eating from their father's money! Never be scared of complaining to the teacher or a mentor, you might be risking being called a "complaint box" but you comfort and piece of mind are much important. Also its fine if you don't talk about all this to your parents, but please do cause they can do everything in their power to stop it and asking for help isn't a sign of weakness! But i personally find it much more comfortable to talk to friends about this so do whatever works for you but please do cause letting it be will only make it worse.
I have been in those situations where I had no one to talk to cause I wasn't cool or sporty enough but I found my people and those I could relate too. Friends have to be those who respect you the most.
Hope you guys recognise your friends and at this age it's my request to all teenagers who are eager to fit in...its only a matter of time before you'd have to leave the mould and find your own lining.
Please share your personal struggles if you desire to and help me get inspired..If you have said something mean to your friends and it is now that you realise it...its never too late to apologise and its a sign that you are a person who has courage and a pure heart!
They that have power to hurt, and will do none,
That do not do the thing they most do show,
Who, moving others, are themselves as stone,
Unmoved, cold, and to temptation slow;
They rightly do inherit heaven's graces,
And husband nature's riches from expense;
They are the lords and owners of their faces,
Others, but stewards of their excellence.
The summer's flower is to the summer sweet,
Though to itself, it only live and die,
But if that flower with base infection meet,
The basest weed outbraves his dignity:
For sweetest things turn sourest by their deeds;
Lilies that fester, smell far worse than weeds.
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